The saviourĀ 

It’s independence day and still confused which one to mention? About the chaos? Anthem? Border? War? Saviors?

Well! We just get this ‘Indian’ feel just occasionally when we get to encounter visuals related to them! What about the rest of the time? Couple of years back I was at Wagah border and until they started their routines, I was just having ‘we times’ with friends! Yeah! And after those rituals had completed, I was totally invoked with the feel of being an Indian! That patriotic feel, obviously an invoked feel!! Tho I ain’t anti-patriotic! But the thing is I respect military/ army officials more than I respect India., Seems like you could extract the difference!

And then, I had an encounter with this army official and his conversation about his life-style, life-death daily toggles, being apart from family and such chaotic survival, just made me realise that i am a piece of a useless jerk! And still I feel the same., My jerky question to him was ‘Why would he sacrifice so much himself to protect us and what does he get in return?’ And may be, I unveiled myself to be a jerk!! And his response was ‘This was never my passion! I was intended to do this and now after facing all those chaos, I didn’t want my family and the rest to deal with such chaos directly!’

But what do we do to them in return? How many of you know the names of the highest army officials? Atleast the name of their postings? We rarely do! Despite bidding a salute to what India is, I’d proudly bid a salute to those people who be the responsibility of our well being!!

#army #navy #airforce #isalutethem #indianindependenceday #missnaiduwrites 

Def(m)ence

It genuinely baffles me that men don’t want women in positions of power because “they’re slaves to their harmones/ emotions” and yet, one of those lines of defence when it comes to rape cases tends to be “it’s hardly his fault! look at what she was wearing! How could we expect him to control himself!” 

The eff’ man!

#irespectmen #irespectwomen #neutralpost #missnaiduwrites 

My Heart-throb writes

So… I made myself so strong to blog this one. This is a must watch post for both men and women out there. So it’s 01.45 a.m (IST) and I had just completed watching the movie “lens” (tamil). This post is not about movie review or so. May be I had a heart-throb, that ache a person has while completing a heart-waming novel or a movie.

This movie was based on a real incident of a 15-years old girl named “Amanda Todd” who was cyber bullied and was forced to commit suicide in Canada (exposed). Many of us would not have that much exposure about this incident. But coming up to know this one shook me up!

But the reason why I came up with this is… *blank* I well know that I can change nothing. But it’s been the most discussed thing among where I live, since cyber-bullying and rapes became gossips! Describe a girl? Long legs! Chubby enough! Booty goals! Busty nigga! I need not go deep!! Abuse a girl? Use her weakness, bully her! Until she quits her life.

Not all men are same. Real ones (asli-mard) do exist. But men will be men. And the one who starts blaming women! Got you! Hope so you would have heard it “The thing happened to short skirts vigorously happened to burkhas too!” And yes girls! I am not here to support you too! Men too get raped!!

People be like “Government should ban porn. Watching porn makes men rape!” So, “You love watching dexter. Don’t you? Does watching dexter make you murder people?” So hereby, It doesn’t matter if I’ve gone through such bullies or so, don’t I have such right to question you? I feel the way they do! We do exist!

#irespectmen #irespectwomen #missnaiduwrites

Choice

Yes, I had my choices. But I chose to leave. Isn’t it insane to go without any attachments, emotions, feelings? Everything is normal, and suddenly you’re gone, forever. There’s always this hope of you coming back or atleast stating the reasons why you left.

Maybe someday I’ll know why. Until then lets assume? But on the contrary, I think it’s quite unfair to meet people unexpectedly and expect them to give reasons why they left. Throughout the months, I’ve mastered the ability to forget. Forget incidents, forget memories, forget moments, and even people. I still end up thinking about these people during some sleepless nights though.

After all, you cannot completely erase them from your lives, but you can atleast try to avoid having pieces of them left inside your broken self.

You’ll not forget their favourite food, their way of conversation or their smile. But you can forget the promises they’ve made. You can forgive them for the hearts they’ve broken.

After all, what’s the point of holding on, when letting go is the only option?

#wordsfromheart #pointlesscravings #missnaiduwrites

WoMen

And so here is the truth ladies… Being pretty doesn’t keep a man. Being honest doesn’t keep a man. Being loyal doesn’t keep a man. Treating a man good doesn’t keep a man. Being there for a man doesn’t keep a man. Caring about a man doesn’t keep a man. Making an effort doesn’t keep a man. Paying attention to a man doesn’t keep a man. Spending time with a man doesn’t keep a man.

You could have the best intentions, you could have the most sincere feelings, and you could be a good woman and you still wouldn’t be able to keep a man because the only way to keep a man is if that man wants to be kept by you.

You can’t force a man to be with you. You can’t beg a man to stay with you. You can’t love a man into loving you. 

With a man, you could tell he wants to be kept when the relationship gets hard and he does everything to fight for you because, a man only fights for a girl he wants to belong to. So if he isn’t fighting for you when things get hard, then that means he doesn’t want to be kept by you anymore. 

So, ladies, the karuthu what i am saying is, don’t hold on to a man who doesn’t want to be kept by you. No, you’re not giving up on him. It’s him who gave up on you and it’s you who shouldn’t waste anymore of your time than you already have. Know when it’s time to let go, know when it’s time to walk away, and know when it’s time for him to be unkept.

#facethetruth #chinupladies #naiduwrites

Life

Hey everyone! I am about to share something very personal and important to all the younger people out there. I had an idea of blogging this for a past few days, but I couldn’t wait anymore to blog it on a health day or any auspicious day. So today, I ‘ll just go on. Well, it’s gonna be a li’l long post so buckle up. Please keep scrolling if you get way too bored or disguised easily. So here I go…

First of all, the reason I wanted to share this is to create awareness. People this generation be like “living for the society” and obviously I was one of them. Whenever I wanted to follow a diet, there were people who mocked because they thought that I was aiming for size-zero. There is a constant pressure for everyone no matter how strong a person you are, you still care what people think or say about you. I am not here to lecture you about ignoring those comments because practically, you know that you all will get offended when people judge you by your looks. But they will convince you anyways. They’re fine. Everything is fine. But if you really truly didn’t care, you wouldn’t need to vocalize it and dump yourself into a situation that makes you feel sufferred later.

And second, never overlook any symptoms. Never. Your body has so many ways to indicate if there is something wrong going on the inside. Listen to it. And do not diagnose by yourself. Nobody knows what could happen to anyone anytime. And not everything comes with the scheduled symptoms too. Self judging about how strong you are is an utter crap and that has to be avoided. It may be scarry, any of these normal symptoms can lead us to the lifetime-consuming situations. Yeah, you heard it right., migraines, bruises, constipation, worst appetite suddenly, gaining weight suddenly, puking often, becoming tired so you couldn’t walk even 20 steps continuously, laziness at it’s peak so your productivity becomes zero, these may be abnormal even if you aren’t affected by PMS (Post Menstrual Syndrome).

Panic not guys, all you need to do is to get a good and a very trust worthy consultation regularly. May be not often, but for a few suspicious hormonal changes like so. And the most notable thing is not to procrastinate such things. Mark it on. Do not procrastinate. The time and the money that you are about to invest in such things is no waste. This is not a want, this is a need. Switch to organic sanitary napkins or change often, do not skip food routines, avoid eating outside unless you have to, eat healthy food, drink a lot of water, play outside, get sunlight, consult a good dietician, practice a good diet, avoid carbonated drinks, use skimmed milk, intake ginger as it controls bloating, take stairs whenever possible. 

Every problem has a solution no matter how quantified it is. I posted this because I care for you. I did so, because I don’t want another me in you to make you and your family suffer. So, I hope you guys found it useful. Reblog/ share it as much as possible. Live a healthy life worth living and treasure up each and every moment. Losta love!!

#naiduwrites